it doesn't take a lot of working out to figure that Carol A. Valentine, zoompad (& her other names) are the same person
which when zoompad is not going to post on your blog [although still take the time to read it] is a little strange that she comes back under an "assumed" name
the first thing I read on your blog is the disclaimer at the top of every page but I can see how things are difficult for zoompad as where ever she turns to get some answers she currently hits a brick wall
I do think she needs help at the moment as if you follow through on her links she appears to be having conversations with herself, although I could be wrong and they may well be different people
keep up the good work A.
after all people are strange, when you're a stranger